Isn't it concerning that even when writing in a grieving/ thinking of you card, I try to make myself stand out?

A co-worker is out because he is putting his cat down. Everybody wrote "sorry for your loss" or "thinking of you" etc. What I wrote: Thinking of you, your friend - Pat

Not really different I know, but isn't it odd I thought to myself, "How do I stand out?"

It's fucked up really.